an example of how i am in over my head with carter: he is currently playing with play-doh, and for a few minutes, he made noodles--this i can relate to. then out of the blue, he just announced "i made spark plugs mommy!!!"

oh? huh. gee...they look just like spark plugs to me, good job!

ugh. i really don't relish learning about engines. i love learning, and will rally, but of all things to pick, this is not in my top 10, i'll tell you that.